Want to be a good mother is not easy now. The kids expected a lot of things from a good mother.
To meet all their needs.
To listen to them.
Do not punish them.
Do not arrange all their time on study, tuition & etc.
Do not scold them on their mistake, if not they will not telling true to you in future.
Too many bad example for them to follow, they will learn it very fast.

Who can get a title as "Good Mother"?